“Don’t get upset, take the lesson, and move on” Something I said tonight at dinner to my niece, who had… Read more Take the Lesson, Move On
Tag: connection disorder
Can We Talk About Sex Babyy (and also trauma)
Can we talk about sex for a moment? About how it can be hard when it actually means something? Especially… Read more Can We Talk About Sex Babyy (and also trauma)
Touch….
We crave it, studies have shown we need it. We aren’t meant to be alone, as a species we are… Read more Touch….
When?
I’ve been angry lately, upset with myself……It has been years and while there is clear improvement, I still often break.… Read more When?
Women in the Mirror
I am a strong believer in the idea that the universe sends you who you need. I’ve noticed a phenomenon,… Read more Women in the Mirror
“You’re just being crazy”
“They only want to use you ” “Oh, they only want to sleep with you” “I’m the only one who… Read more “You’re just being crazy”
When self sacrifice and people pleasing become to much…
One common quality many people who struggle with mental illness share is people pleasing. I’m not saying that this goes… Read more When self sacrifice and people pleasing become to much…
1 pill, 2 pill, red pill, blue pill and 10 more pills…..
When your emotions are like the worlds most terrifying rollercoaster ride, it is easy to become emotionally exhausted, it’s even… Read more 1 pill, 2 pill, red pill, blue pill and 10 more pills…..
Never Me
It’s never me The one who causes a smile when I cross your mind I’m not the girl people stop… Read more Never Me
Realization and Reprogramming
Lately when something happens I stop and think about it. I then state the problem followed by “because I….” If… Read more Realization and Reprogramming